Saturday, December 3, 2011
Friday, December 2, 2011
The love that binds us...
The love that binds us...
I suppose this is the place... My sister is gay and has a beautiful daughter who isn't. I have two beautiful daughters that aren't old enough to know what they are yet. M and I are looking for our unicorn and even more difficult, we would love to add a child that would belong to the three of us. If it happens, great, if it doesn't happen, we are happy with just us. But kids like this one? They give me hope. ☺
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
EEET'S ALIIIIIIVE!!!!!!!!
Doing Massive Retarded Happy Dances!!!!
Sparky made it!
And her idiot owner didn't call me and tell me.
Yes I hit him.. Hard...
Sparky made it!
And her idiot owner didn't call me and tell me.
Yes I hit him.. Hard...
We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming..
Day 4: Someone you have to forgive for something
Ya know, I'm betting you think I should put my mom here... But I'm not quite there yet, so I'll put X. I need to forgive him for being an insufferable twit as well as being totally narcissistic. He really can't help it considering the way his mother did and still does treat him. Do I think he could do better? Yep, I do. Was I part of his problem? You bet. I enabled the shit outta the guy then belittled and demeaned him when he continued the behavior. Doesn't make me a very nice person does it? I do forgive him though because of one simple fact. He is trying. He is trying to be a good Dad. He is trying to be a good partner. That cuts him HUGE amounts of slack in my book. I forgive him for not trying while we were in the relationship because frankly even if he had tried, it wouldn't have been "enough" for me. I just wasn't happy in the relationship so there was no way anything he did would have pleased me. He's easy enough to forgive.
I just don't think I'm up to forgiving the hard ones like my Mom yet, but I'll get there.
Ya know, I'm betting you think I should put my mom here... But I'm not quite there yet, so I'll put X. I need to forgive him for being an insufferable twit as well as being totally narcissistic. He really can't help it considering the way his mother did and still does treat him. Do I think he could do better? Yep, I do. Was I part of his problem? You bet. I enabled the shit outta the guy then belittled and demeaned him when he continued the behavior. Doesn't make me a very nice person does it? I do forgive him though because of one simple fact. He is trying. He is trying to be a good Dad. He is trying to be a good partner. That cuts him HUGE amounts of slack in my book. I forgive him for not trying while we were in the relationship because frankly even if he had tried, it wouldn't have been "enough" for me. I just wasn't happy in the relationship so there was no way anything he did would have pleased me. He's easy enough to forgive.
I just don't think I'm up to forgiving the hard ones like my Mom yet, but I'll get there.
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