Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Naval Gazing
Sometimes its not about the control or the beatings. Sometimes its about the comfort of a hug, the love exchanged, the need for each others presence, the understanding. Sometimes its just that craving to be in each others arms. I think that ttwd has less to do with the relationship between us than the fact that we both enjoy kink. Almost as if the kink is simply something we have in common but the foundation is that love we have for each other. My mom fucked up a lot of things in the raising of us but she got a couple of things right. She told me that sex doesn't make a marriage, but she had never seen a successful one without it.
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i used to think there was something wrong with me, that i wanted to be with Him all the time....not just in play, but in anything; from mundane grocery shopping to laying in bed together reading the news.
ReplyDeleteThe kink is a nice thing, i love it(more than He does, i think) but it's just trimming on what was already there...food for thought.
Maybe just one more way that we are compatible?
ReplyDeleteProbably. It's always nice to find the other side of your coin, the key to your lock, whatever cliched metaphor you choose, it means the same thing. There is one perfect person for everyone, and we are lucky we have ours, huh?
ReplyDeleteI love your sentiments and believe what you've said is oh so true.
ReplyDeleteMy friend lives by the rule that in a loving and committed relationship sex only accounts for about 10% of it, but it's great to have nevertheless.
In a bad relationship without the important underpinning factors sex is somewhat more in the spotlight and may account for 90% of the union. that's when it goes wrong.
I'm gonna stick with a union with solid foundations where sex is great and kink is the icing on the cake but it's the other things that are the glue!
DY x