Ever feel like a fraud when it comes to orientation? I do, all the damn time. I am now listed as queer even though I have no thoughts of ever sexually entertaining men. I top one guy in particular all the time and am married to M, but that's about the limit of it. I really just can't get anything else going for guys. This morning is a perfect example. I followed one of my friends who is bi to a picture expecting to find a lovely girl to look at and it was a man. The picture really was well done, it was definitely an attractive example of man, but I admired that and the composition of the pic. Honestly the only reason I remarked on it was so my not-so-queer friends had something nice to look at. I know women have dreams of some big strong man taking hold of them, slamming them down on the bed and having their wicked way with them, and I did too, until I met M. Anything that I needed met by a male he does, so I find myself turning more and more lesbian in my tastes. Any idea how many poly lesbians there are out there? Notsomany. Especially ones like me, that don't do casual sex. I want a relationship, not sex. Well, yeah I want sex too, duh, but having a girlfriend is the goal.
I've mentioned this before but it bears repeating. I've had a couple of more hopefuls but they've been added to the list of non-starters. I haven't given up though, as a matter of fact I'm trying to put together some pithy, under 30 word, funny explanation on my fet profile so people don't see "married" and pass on by.
Any suggestions from my clever friends?